The video is about the unconscious sources of violence. Once you make the distinction between "the authentic self" and the enculturated self -- the product of the Alice Miller Finding -- the rest is just "a question of method".
Now comes a certain Hamish Sinclair, who studies domestic abuse for 20 years and then finds a way to apply what he learned to violent offenders in jail. His method is a Wright Brothers technology related to what we can do about the successful recovery of the authentic self from the wreckage of the enculturated self. The San Francisco program does "fly", but it still needs work. Once the principles are in place, the rest is just fine-tuning.
This is where we should be putting our efforts.
So, Justin Volpe and Osama bin Laden are cousins under the skin. They both learned things as children that it would be good for them to unlearn as adults.
The video runs 25 minutes and runs best with a fast connection.